Where Was God?

During a tragedy, the phrase “Where was God?” is often heard. The fact that someone is suffering somehow translates into either “God doesn't exist” or “God doesn't care”. Some may even think that God sees it all but can’t do anything about it.

What people feel to realize is that as member of the human race, we are at war. War you say? What war? Even if a bombing, a shooting or a senseless rampage isn't official an “act of terror” it is an act of war. The Bible says that Satan is at war with God. Since God loves mankind, all of humanity becomes a target of Satan’s wrath. Yes, much of our suffering is a direct result of sin in the world, but it’s still battle fallout. A true soldier doing his duty, does not ask, “Where is the General?”. He knows were he is. A soldier knows what his own duty is.

A better question might be, “Where were you?  Do you pray daily for safety, for God to intervene in the affairs of evil? Are you sober and vigilant as the Scripture says? Or do you take it all for granted, living only for what pleases you? The Bible tells us to put on the whole armor of God to withstand the devil. (Ephesians 6:10-18)

We are told to overcome evil with good. How can we do that? Revelation 12:11 (NIV) says: “They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death.”

It has been said that all that is needed for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing. But really, for us to triumph over evil, evil must attack first. How can you triumph over nothing? Next time, instead of bemoaning your fate when bad things happen, triumph over evil. It’s already given to us through God’s power!

If Tires Could Talk...

It's funny really. We want to be the best person we can be. We want to be strong, to make a difference. Yet we want things to go smoothly.
Imagine a tire company that wanted to make the best sports tires in the world, but never tested them. We would think that was silly. We also wouldn't buy them. Tires, to be safe and durable, must be tested rigorously. The tire maker must know they will hold up to the perils of the open road or they will not be in business long.
But have you ever thought about what the tire thinks of all that testing? (I'm sure you probably haven't, but humor me anyway.) It is driven at high speeds over ruts and bumps, through gravel and dirt. It is driven through rain, snow, storms and wind, over ice and blistering pavement  It is skidded, screeched  kicked (old school) scraped, under and even over inflated. And for what you might ask? So it can be stamped APPROVED, worthy of carrying precious cargo. 'm sure the tire would just as soon forego the test and just go for the stamp. But that's not how it works, with tires, ships, airplanes  or even character. They all must be tested to ensure their quality.
This last week my family was tested. My daughter went in for a routine "sex of the baby" ultrasound to find that there was no heartbeat. To make it worse, she found out there were twins. The next day Elisabeth Rose and Renee Rose were still born at 5 months. Our first grand-babies are born and taken away. A godly mother and father had to bury their children instead of holding them in their arms. Yet through the testing, they are being refined, no APPROVED. I am so proud of them. Does it hurt? Yes! Will it continue to hurt? Unfortunately, yes. Is God still good? ABSOLUTELY! He has a plan and will continue to work. My daughter and son-in-law have called them "their little missionaries". They hope that others will be strengthened and brought to Christ through this trial.
Here is my daughter's own Facebook entry on April 6th:

"Hi, as you might have heard, we went in for our 20 week ultra sound appointment yesterday to find out the sex of the baby. While we were there, we found out we had twins and that neither had a heartbeat any longer. They were sharing a sack and everything in it and they just didn't make it. We were sent to Doctors right away were I was induced and delivered, like a normal delivery (mostly), two tiny beautiful baby girls. We are heartbroken but know The Lord has a plan. He is good, always. Even though this devastating event, we completely trust him. We are thankful for the opportunity to be parents of two beautiful girls, Elisabeth Rose and Renee Rose. We will be having a small service to honor them and will keep you updated with the date and time. If anyone would like to help you can contact my mom Patricia Cross. Thank you in advance for your prayers and support."

My children are living out their faith for the world. What more could a father want?

Helping Hands & Shovel-fulls of Love

I witnessed something wonderful at the funeral of my twin grand-babies yesterday. At the end of the service, my son-in-law gently put the box carrying the remains into the small grave. He then put a couple shovel-fulls of dirt into the grave. I had never seen this before. My wife leaned over to me and said, "Stephanie said you could help if you want". They were going to make him shovel all the dirt in now as they watched?! I jumped up to help. I was shocked, no stunned. "Do we have to do all of it?", I whispered. "And anyone else that wants to help", he said. Then as I looked up, tears filled my eyes. There were already several men waiting for their turn. As I handed over the shovel to John's best friend, I stepped back and watched as man after man took his turn helping their "brother" give his children to God. As it happens, it’s a German Baptist tradition, a wonderful, tender tradition. As we sang "Bless the Lord Oh My Soul" and watched the outpouring of heartfelt shovel-full’s slowly fill in the small hole, we came together as believers in Christ.

My granddaughters will be sorely missed. My daughter will need more comforting. Things will never be the same. It's God's plan so we can grow. We must be tested to be approved. We didn't really loose the twins, not really. I can imagine two beautiful little girls, sitting by the gates of heaven waiting to give their mom and dad a big hug. And someday we all will. It's God's plan.

                      Elizabeth Rose Garber                                          Renee Rose Garber

                                    2013                                                                          2013

On shining steps near Heaven’s gate

All dressed in white two roses wait

For time to pass and years to fly

For those on earth to say goodbye

With loving smiles and golden hair

They welcome others entering there

They wait for mother’s hand to hold

And in her arms their blossoms unfold
                                                   For My Granddaughters – M. Dale Cross