It wasn’t really a sad time; they both lived into their 80s
and had a good life. It just isn’t the same without them. Their youngest son
gave a wonderful life summary. As crazy as he is, he has always been good with
words. He ended with a quote from, of all people, Dr. Seuss.
On the surface, Dr. Seuss is known for a collection of
children’s books that are silly, thoughtful, fanciful, outrageous, and
educational, all at the same time. Some books like Green Eggs and Ham are just
plain silly. I am told that book was written as a challenge to use only certain
words given to him. But others taught us about prejudice (Sneetches) care for
nature (The Lorax) forgiveness & redemption (How the Grinch Stole Christmas)
and even counting & colors (1Fish 2 Fish). There was much more to the man
than is seen on the surface.
The quote he used was “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile
because it happened.” It’s an amazing little quote if you really ponder it. Things
end. Situations change. If we dwell on the loss, we will always be sad. Today
was the last day of this year’s work season for me at the State Park. It will
be strange not working, but oh the stories I have from this year! It is in
remembering the fun times, the journeys, the serendipitous happenings, were we
can smile and be glad we were part of it. Grieving is a part of healing. But don’t
settle there. Take time to recall the joy, the laughter, and the triumphs in
the season you just finished. Many times what seems to be extreme chaos looks totally
different when viewed from the hindsight vantage point. Take time to reflect,
admire, and appreciate where you have been. God promises the journey will be worthwhile.
“And
we know that in all things God works for the good
of
those who love him, who have been
called
according to his purpose.”
Romans 8:28 NIV
😔
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