Saturday, January 18, 2025

What If? No Looking Back

Let’s face it. Times are rough. Money is tight. We actually went backward when we came back to California to care for my wife’s mother. Sometimes, in the midst of the drama of life, I have stopped to think about the what-ifs. What if I had chosen a different career?

I have had several possibilities over the years.  Coming out of high school I was doing a lot of jewelry making. I actually considered going to school for diamond appraisal/Jewelry design. Another option was a career in Microbiology. Diamond appraisal would have been a great choice money wise. Microbiology (I had my sights set on working for the CDC in exotic viruses) would be exciting and rewarding. After seeing the gem business, I decided I didn’t want the stress nor security risks that went with it. I soon realized that the type of work in the CDC I was interested in was not conducive to raising a family. I didn’t like the idea of being on call 24/7 and possibly missing anniversaries, birthday, or other major milestones in my family’s life. I decided to be a science teacher.

Later while I was in between teaching jobs, I worked for McDonnell-Douglas in an information data center. I had only worked there about 9 months and my supervisor was wanting to send me to supervisor school. Again, it would have been a great financial opportunity. Several of my friends did very well with the subsequent mergers and takeovers.

While we were in Arizona, I had a friend who worked for the Edward Jones financial group. At that time it was #4 in the nation in job satisfaction. He though I would be perfect since teachers seemed to do very well. It would have been a huge pay increase, not to mention the opportunities for regular golf games with clients! I realized it would mean a total career change. After much prayer and searching I was confident that God wanted me to continue teaching so I declined. Over the years, I have been able to help and influence others in building God’s kingdom. You cannot put a price on that.

Do I regret it? No, not really. This week I have watched how millions of dollars in assets can disappear in just one fire. Add to that, earthquakes, floods, hurricanes & tornadoes, and bankruptcies & theft and you really get to see what the scriptures were talking about when they say “riches are fleeting”.

Would I like to be rich? Sure, why not. But my wife and I also realized we enjoy seeing God provide. We have numerous stories how He has provided the right amount, at the right time. It actually seems like it would be a shame to walk away from that. I remember how forgetful I am…

Proverbs 23:4-5 Do not wear yourself out to get rich; do not trust your own cleverness. Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly off to the sky like an eagle.

James 1:10-11 But the rich should take pride in their humiliation—since they will pass away like a wild flower. For the sun rises with scorching heat and withers the plant; its blossom falls and its beauty is destroyed. In the same way, the rich will fade away even while they go about their business.

If you curse me, then I will bless you

If you hurt me, I will forgive

And if you hate me, then I will love you

I choose the Jesus way

If you're helpless, I will defend you

And if you're burdened, I'll share the weight

And if you're hopeless, then let me show you

There's hope in the Jesus way

Songwriters: Jonathan Smith / Phil Wickham The Jesus Way lyrics © Be Essential Songs


 

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